id caption ari tau gem can leo vir lib sco sag cap aqu pis 20090629 Philip Garcia's Weekly Love Horoscopes: Monday 29th June 2009 It's difficult to understand the dynamics of a certain relationship when a friend or partner is moody and changeable. Patterns you are going through are totally unpredictable but not always positive. This is starting to get you down. If one moment a partner wants one thing then instantly demanding something else how are you supposed to keep up with them? However long you have been together, it is important you both try to respect and consider each other's feelings. It becomes clear as the week begins that someone isn't as committed to a relationship as you are. Before showing your disappointment, consider whether their feelings might change in time. If, for instance a relationship was formed on physical attraction, the emotional bonds could come later. As long as you get on well and there is trust between you, it might be better not to rock the love boat. Just give it a wee while longer before making any changes. Your charisma is at an all time high. If you're single, pull out all the stops to charm a reluctant someone into capitulation! If you're attached, there is nothing your partner won't do for you now. You might be devoting yourself entirely to one special person this week and it doesn't matter if you're missing out on fun social activities going on elsewhere. Your aim now is to put time and energy into the relationships that really matter. It's useless to fret if a relationship is going through a difficult phase if you don't do anything about it. Make the effort now to work on a romance or close friendship rather than giving up on it too easily. When life is busy it isn't always easy to find time for each other but if you find the will to make things better, you will find a way. First thing to do is look at your joint schedules and arrange time when you can be together without any distractions or disturbances. It might seem as if a relationship is doomed to failure but you could be surprised. It is entirely possible a partnership won't come to an end, it will just change. You might decide to stay together but agree on a different set of guidelines. If for instance a romance turns into a friendship, this could turn out to be a very special kind of relationship and a one that will last for the rest of your life. The niggling worries you have about a romantic affair should not prey on your mind to a point that they dominate your days. Arrange a holiday or get involved in a demanding social venture. These could be welcome diversions. Be honest with a partner about your feelings and eventually they will confide in you. It might even help to spend a little time apart to give each other some space. An offer could take you into a new social circle; this may not please a friend who isn't invited and wants things between you to stay the same. You need something new out of life even if others don't. Your desire for change will be too strong to ignore and either old friends must accept this or you could be saying goodbye. New doors are opening now and you will only regret it later if you don't take advantage. If there is tension in a relationship with a neighbour, housemate or partner, it might be time to relocate. You won't ever feel secure or comfortable when there is tension and hostility in the air. The stress might also affect your work. It is time to consider all other options and alternatives especially if you know deep within your heart, this relationship is not going to get any better. If your partner or a close friend lives far away and you miss seeing them, surprise them by making a date at a place close to where they live. The travel and change of scene will uplift your spirits and the effort you're making for your relationship will please your partner. Let others know you truly care and you do enjoy their company by putting yourself out for them this week. Even if it means making a few personal sacrifices, it will be worth it. Some confusion is likely in your one-to-one relationships. Disagreements come between you and it might not be until the weekend when you finally get a chance to sit down together and work it all out. Problems in your love life won't seem as impossible as you first thought them to be. A heart-to-heart will also help release blocks that have been preventing you from getting in touch with your sensual side. Once you start to relax, you will feel more romantic and loving. Disagreements could come between you and someone close and yet they could be easily resolved. You've always needed to feel as if you're on a par with your partner. If the balance is out of kilter, it shouldn't take a lot of effort to restore equilibrium. Have a think about what you might do to improve matters between you. A meaningful discussion could inspire you into making changes that help boost your love life. Channel your energy into a romance or friendship that isn't turning out as expected. You can't possibly expect to make things better if you bury your head in the sand. You can be sensitive to your partner's needs by asking questions. Give them what they want and not what you think they should have. Be sincere about your own feelings too. This will encourage others to be more honest with you.