Margot Carmichael Lester

Whether you’re emailing, instant messaging or chatting one-on-one, your opening line is crucial to making the right first impression. We asked single females what they wanted to see in an opening line. Here’s what we found out:

Originality
“Emoticons and ‘hi there’ show a serious lack of imagination,” says Daisy, 22. “I look for something clever or zany – then it’ll just beg me to click.”

Interests
“I’m drawn to subject lines featuring quotes from or references to movies, theatre or literature,” notes Dani, 41. “It shows we have similar interests and that they are at least a little cultured.”

Informed
“Women love men who pay attention,” says Charlotte, 27. “Show me you actually read my profile and reference something in ther – it’ll prove you’re not just e-mailing me because I look nice in my photo.”

Ask questions
“Everybody likes to talk about themselves, even on email,” admits Carole, 32. “So why not take the bull by the horns and ask some questions – we’ll be flattered that you’re interested enough to ask!”

Directness
“I’m always speeding through my mail, so a direct subject line gets my vote every time,” says Dana, 35. “It says what it means, means what it says. What’s not to like about it? However, if it’s too suggestive or borders on being crude, I won’t respond – luckily, I haven’t come across anyone that’s been too full on Match so far!”

Off-beat
“I’ve got a skewed sense of humour, and I’m looking for someone just as off-kilter,” says Paola, 43, “something that is totally obscure will catch my attention.”

Confidence
“Confidence is sexy,” notes Martina, 39. “I like subject lines that are confident, but not cocky.”

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