Randy B. Hecht, russellgrant.match.com

The subject line of your first email contact with a prospective match — or, if you’re using Match Messenger, the opening line of your instant messaging exchange — is the on-screen equivalent of eye contact and a smile in person. Only something really awful (say, references to the size of the other person’s income or prominent body parts) is likely to be an instantaneous deal-breaker.

But your goal isn’t simply to not crash and burn; you want to make an impression that sets you apart in a crowded field. Want an enthusiastic reply? Try one of these openers to begin a great conversation that could lead to a great relationship:

1.Your profile made me smile. I’d love to return the favour!

2.We haven’t even met, and I’m daydreaming about you

3.You remind me of my dinner tonight-full of spice!

4.Oh, my!

5.Your profile reminded me why I joined Match.com

6.Even my PC screen lit up at the sight of you

7.What a delightful surprise you are!

8.I think our dogs need a play date and we need a real date!

9.Boy, do we have a lot in common!

10.Hoping to pique your curiosity … for starters …

11.If I weren’t so shy, I’d tell you you’re gorgeous

12.What an upbeat attitude. I’m positive we’d click!

13.I’d love to hear more about your travels

14.Flirt Alert!

15.You sound like a great person and parent — can we chat?

16.Your profile just gave me a cardiovascular workout

17.I’m trying to decide what comes next after WOW

18.Has anyone told you you’re fascinating?

19.Read your profile last night and thought of you all day today

20.Are you free for dinner tonight?

21.Blown away …

22.Do you often turn cynics into romantics?

23.You could bring out the gold medal snuggler in me

24.I could tell you my life story … but I think it won’t begin until we meet

25.Just when I was sure there was no one like you … here you are!

Of course, the best subject line is one that picks up on something specific within the profile of your newfound match. But with this list, you’ll always have something to say when you find someone special online … even when that someone special leaves you at a loss for words!

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