Are You Ready To Trade Keys?
By Phineas Mollod and Jason Tesauro
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Are You Ready To Trade Keys?
By Phineas Mollod and Jason Tesauro
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By Phineas Mollod and Jason Tesauro

ou and your love have been dating, and things have been going swimmingly. But how to secure a hairbrush and a change of skivvies when you wake up at your new sweetie’s apartment next Saturday morning? And what about when your mate has volunteered to spend the afternoon at your place awaiting the cable guy who graciously gave his window of arrival anywhere between 10 A.M. and 4 P.M…. are your exotic tropical fish going to open the door for her? After a certain stint of dating and sleepovers, accommodations for the sake of creature comfort are inevitable. How do you handle the issues of drawer space and key giving? Heed this advice.
A smidgen of storage space It begins with the hostess’s kind gift of a spare
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| After a joyous trip to the hardware store, The Key is bestowed |
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toothbrush or the host’s offer of a makeshift pajama outfit composed of an old AC/DC concert tee and a pair of flannel boxers. Why not be the one to display such a generous flourish first? If the love keeps blossoming, expect guest amenities to now include your very own mouthwash cup, square foot of storage under the bathroom sink, and two hangers-worth of closet space for business outfits and swanky shirts. After all, no one wants to eat weekend brunch in yesterday’s smoky party clothes while others are munching Belgian waffles in fresh, comfy slacks. Thus, the need for extra space at your lover’s pad. Remember, even the late Mr. Rogers liked to slip out of his work clothes and into a soft cardigan for hanging around the house.
The key exchange Convenience and trust intersect when, still rather early on in a relationship, her plants need watering during a business trip or your bulldog needs walking on some busy evening. It dawns upon one of you that perhaps a key exchange should occur. After a joyous trip to the hardware store, The Key is bestowed. You should never ask for the key at this early stage, as it should generally be given out of practicality, not some relationship status check. Giving a key isn’t a marriage proposal or necessarily even a let’s-move-in-together feeler
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